With You, We Stand - 10/20/09



Peter Criss

Criss, the original drummer in KISS, is celebrating a year since completing treatment for breast cancer. The disease is almost always seen in women; male cases represent less than one percent a year. That's why Criss is helping to raise awareness of the disease in men, who he says can feel embarrassed about the possibility of having the disease. To men who notice lumps in their breasts, Criss says: "Don't sit around playing Mr. Tough Guy. Don't say 'It's going to go away.' It might not and you might not see life anymore and how beautiful that is."
http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/10/15/male.breast.cancer/index.html?iref=mpstoryview

Stefanie Spielman

This touching article out of Ohio looks at Stefanie Spielman and her husband Chris, a former linebacker for Ohio State. In 1998 Stefanie was diagnosed with breast cancer, and the disease has recurred multiple times since then. In the piece, Chris celebrates his wife's courage in facing what he calls "her biggest challenge" yet again. Since 1999, the Spielmans have helped raise over $6.5 million for cancer research. "They're strong," says Spielman's former coach. "It's easy for us to say, 'That's how you should be.' It's a heck of a lot harder to be that way -- and they are. They're amazing."
http://www.columbusdispatch.com/live/content/life/stories/2009/10/20/1A_SPIELMANS.ART_ART_10-20-09_D1_UOFDQTF.html?sid=101

Alan Margolies

At the age of 56, Margolies was diagnosed with prostate cancer during a routine physical for a life insurance policy. Now, three years later, he appears to be cancer-free, and is leading a prostate cancer support group in his town of Jacksonville, Florida. Thirty-five men came out for the group's first meeting, which connected newly diagnosed men with men who have been through prostate cancer treatment. "To be with other men who have dealt with prostate cancer is an opportunity and a privilege," he says. "In battling cancer your mental attitude is crucial. It's important to feel positive."
http://jacksonville.com/news/metro/2009-10-20/story/prostate_cancer_survivor_leads_new_support_group

Marianne Godfrey
This article out of Atlanta remembers Godfrey, who faced down breast cancer twice in her life - once in the sixties, when she was 32, and again 12 years ago when she was 68. Godfrey devoted her life to educating the public and raising money for the American Red Cross, and was a familiar face at American Cancer Society fundraising events; she passed away last week from congestive heart failure. "She was an unbelievable fighter," her son says. "If anybody ever had room to complain, moan or grown about her circumstances, it was her. But she never did."
http://www.ajc.com/news/gwinnett/marianne-godfrey-80-offered-166389.html

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Posted by Kevin J Williams | October 20, 2009 8:26 PM

Mom, Dad, and now my beautiful sister Sus has Cancer too.

Dad died of throat cancer May 30 2000.
(Damn that nicotine addiction...)
Mom beat Breast and Cervical Cancer, then passed away on June 10th 2000 from Heart failure.
They said that the secondary cause was reduced lung capacity from 50 plus years of smoking...
Sus has it in her bowel, liver and brain.
Chemo worked for the bowel and liver and she had a great summer, going on an extended holiday to Europe.
In Sept they said it spread to her brain, and assumed it was in her bones and gave her 2 months to live. It is not in her bones (why do the doctors do that to her and us too?) and they have given her radiation on her brain to slow the process and allow her to retain her mental capacities. End of October she starts radiation to shrink the tumour in her bottom. This will ease her discomfort.
My heart is breaking for her every day.
I feel kind of empty like I am greiving already.
Have to keep a good attitude and show Sus plenty of love.
Best wishes to you all, enjoy your lives to the fullest!

Posted by Patty Shutte | October 20, 2009 4:54 PM

My name is Patty. My mom is 69yo and is about to take on cancer for the 4th time. First time was in 2006,a rare form of lymphoma in her intestines. Then this year,in February,she went to see a surgeon about what she thought was just a cyst on her tongue. It turned out to be cancer,stage 4,in her mouth and throat.During a routine PETscan,they found she had stage 2 breast cancer as well. They decided that the throat cancer was to be priority. In March she had surgery,they took part of her tongue and cut open her throat. After 3 weeks in the hospital,she came home to 6 weeks of intense radiation,5 days a week for 6 weeks and Erbotox instead of chemo once a week for 7 weeks. During that time they also prescribed arimidex to start treatment for the breast cancer. Once she was done with the chemo and radiation,they scheduled her for her mastectomy,done in August. They were talking about 6mos of chemo because the breast cancer did get into her lymph nodes and tested for high risk. Yesterday she had another PETscan. They found 2 more spots. In her throat and mouth. Now we decide again which is a priority,the breast cancer treatment or the throat cancer. We see the breast cancer dr on 10/23 and the ENT cancer dr next week. We will get through this as well,mom is a fighter!!!

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